The best way to meet local people in a foreign country is to be open to conversations. Put down your phone, put on a smile and don’t be afraid to ask questions. Sometimes the locals even try to start conversations with you first. One time I was at a coffee shop and it was empty except for me. The woman working the cash register started asking me questions about the U.S. and made me feel so comfortable as I was struggling through my broken Spanish trying to answer. I felt confident enough to keep the conversation going and asked her about different pastries I hadn’t seen before. It was a very cool experience to have with someone.
My Favorite Coffee Mug
I’ve also had interactions with locals from going into the same places all the time. There is one specific cafe (I know I go to a lot of cafes, don’t judge) near my school that I go to sometimes three times a day. A man that works there, and called me out about not understanding “a fuera” o “dentro,” started recognizing me after a while and would ask me questions about where I was from and if I liked Sevilla. He wouldn’t slow down either when he spoke so it was good practice trying to understand fast Spanish.
I think that cafe, called Dulce Trazo, became my favorite because of the conversations I have with the barista. On one hand, having a cafe to call my favorite in another country is great. But on the other I spend a lot of money on coffee and pastries! I try keeping a log of my spending habits and try to limit myself but sometimes a chocolate croissant looks too good to pass up. Other than food I also buy a lot of souvenirs for me and my family/friends. My favorite souvenir I bought was actually from Dulce Trazo. It’s a teacup with pink flowers on it that I bought for my mom because she collects tea cups and tea pots. To me it was a gift I knew she liked but also meant something to me as well. And when you find a gift like that a budget doesn’t seem too important anymore…