The Art of Hindi

Although India’s official languages are Hindi and English, there are over 22 major languages spoken in India and many more dialects. With so many vernaculars, I’ve learned to stick with a few Hindi phrases.
Indian culture tends to be very welcoming and gentle and the language reflects this. To refer to someone specific – like someone we may call “sir” or “madam” – Indians tend use terms of endearment “bu-yah” (brother) or “aunty.” These words are specifically handy while attempting to bargain – the vendors are surprised by the Hindi and sometimes think it’s an English word they do not know in English. When they realize I’m attempting Hindi, they usually smile and give me a better price.
Other phrases such as “shookria” and “dundiabad” (both mean thank you) come in handy as well and are universal throughout the different states. Knowing these few phrases is usually enough to get by, since most people I’ve encountered speak at least a little English.
When language barriers are too strong, however, nonverbal communication tends to take over. A wave or nod always demonstrates recognition despite any miscommunication, but some gestures are unique to certain parts of the world. Perhaps the most famous and common in the east is the Indian headbob.
Rather than the typical nodding for yes and shaking for no, the headbob is something in between. It’s meaning is indefinite and can only be deciphered through context. If you don’t understand what someone is asking, but want to be polite, a headbob does the trick. When someone asks if the food is too spicy, but you don’t want to offend him, the headbob comes in handy. In other words, the headbob is the perfect way to avoid a definite answer. It’s also used along with phrases like “thank you” and “no problem” and “I’m good,” and in general conversation, coming in handy whenever you need it.
Between terms of endearment and a few headbobs, it can still be difficult to understand those with very little English. I have found, however, that bright eyes and a smile is a universal recognition of kindness.